Hudson Valley Based Childbirth Education, Birth and Postpartum Doula Support
Where Preparation meets Surrender
With over 25-years of experience, I blend up-to-date, evidence-based information with trauma-informed, empathetic guidance as a birth and postpartum doula and childbirth educator. Trained in prenatal education, mindfulness-based coping techniques, and postpartum care that emphasizes the profound psychological shift parenthood asks of us all, I tailor each service to your unique journey so you feel heard, respected, and fully prepared for the labyrinth of labor and new parenthood.
What does a Birth Doula DO
I came into my work as a doula and midwifery assistant over two decades ago with a few opinions, and the first few years of that work offered me beautifully humbling experiences and opportunities for unlearning my preconceived ideas about birth. These days, I begin my work with the question, “What does this person need in order to prepare for this birth?” The answer is different each time. From there, I shape my offerings around each family’s values as we learn more about what kinds of coping techniques resonate, what information, research and decisions are compelling to you, and what tools might be most helpful.
I offer Childbirth Education in the form of fun, emotional small-group classes where we explore which coping techniques work best for you, the physiological needs of a laboring person and baby, effective partner support, breath work, body balancing and fetal positioning. My hope is that people leave my class feeling prepared rather than overwhelmed. We explore decision making alongside the common trauma responses that can make advocacy challenging in the moment and a birth rehearsal that allows partners to feel confident in their ability to effectively support you in labor.
I offer a workshop centered on Lactation and Postpartum healing where we discuss ways to prepare for breastfeeding for those planning on doing so. We talk about the most commonly confusing newborn cues and how to soothe an overly-tired newborn, We come up with a postpartum care plan that prioritizes the mental and emotional wellbeing of new parents alongside the needs of their baby, and, for those who are partnered, we discuss ways to strengthen your relationship during the more challenging postpartum weeks.
When my clients feel ready for support in labor, I offer hands-on labor support that includes massage, counter-pressure, breath work and fetal positioning techniques amongst other tools. I often support families in their home before moving to their birth location, and work frequently in hospitals, birth centers and home births. I support each family in finding what feels right for them and their birth, prioritizing the autonomy of birthing people above all else.
After birth, I offer assistance with infant feeding, whether that be breastfeeding and lactation support or bottle feeding. I am there to fully support each family’s preferences in regards to their goals around sleep and parenting techniques. Some families I work with want support in safely co-sleeping and others make use of my gentle sleep conditioning and sleep coaching. Through the years I’ve witnessed everything work for someone and nothing work universally, and this is true both in birth and in parenthood.
I find it’s best to approach each birth with beginners mind, free of preconceived ideas about when it will begin, how long it will take and what it may ask of us. There are really only a few things that still feel universal:
The importance of current, evidence-based information alongside your own intuition in order to make fully informed decisions
Everyone deserves to feel fully autonomous over their decisions and supported by their entire birth team in choosing what feels right for them. You remain the legal authority over your body.
Birth is not just a physical event but an emotional and psychological transformation, though understanding the true physiological needs of a laboring person, such as optimal fetal positioning, movement, and food, are a great place to start.
My Training:
With doula and midwife sister-in-law as my first mentor, I assisted my first home birth in 2001. I took the DONA International Birth Doula and Postpartum Doula certifications and learned Assistant Midwifery skills under the renowned midwives Ina May Gaskin and Pamela Hunt at The Farm in Tennessee, and with Orgasmic Birth author Elizabeth Davis in California. I am certified in Childbirth Education through DTI and completed the Hypnobabies Teacher Training as well as their Hypno-doula training. I have been using Spinning Babies Fetal Positioning techniques since 2009, and taken a doula training in optimal fetal positioning by Ann Gilligan of Gilligan’s Guide. I am certified as a Functional Breathing Instructor through Patrick Mckeown’s The Oxygen Advantage. I draw from an Echo Parenting Trauma Informed parenting workshop extensively in my postpartum education work. I am a Certified Lactation Education Specialists through Breastfeeding LA. I have benefitted enormously from an apprenticeship with Transformed by Birth author Britta Bushnell, and have incorporated so much of her wisdom into my work in childbirth education. I’m certified by the American Red Cross in CPR. I am trained as an Infant Sleep Coach through The Sleep Sanctuary at The Parenthood Project and certified in circle fascilitation with the Wild Woman Project Circle Leader Training. The most intensive training I’ve undertaken began with the home birth of my own daughter in 2013 and mothering her. I’m still learning every day.
Your Questions Answered
What if I know I want an epidural?
The assumption that birth doulas are anti epidural is understandable, but most experienced doulas have enough experience with birth to know that sometimes an epidural is the one tool that allows a birth to proceed. In fact, every intervention offered by your OB is a tool that has the potential to work in your favor. I support every family I work with in whatever decisions feel right for them. We all have different goals and different visions. My goal is your autonomy.
Do you attend births in hospitals, birth centers, or at home?
Yes, I support you in all birthing environments and have extensive experience in each.
Does a doula replace the birth partner?
I am there to support both you and your partner as you navigate the emotional and physically challenging aspects of labor and the postpartum journey. Prenatally this looks like teaching partners hands-on counter-pressure techniques, fetal positioning and body-balancing stretches and coaching skills to help them provide the impactful support they want to give you. In labor, it is the partner who usually has the biggest impact on the endorphins and hormones that help in labor. Many partners say they benefited from doula support as much as the birthing parent did.
Do I really need a doula?
Doulas dramatically lower the risk of unnecessary cesarean delivery, it’s true. By almost 40%, actually. But labor support changes how you experience the transition into parenthood, and feeling deeply held and supported lowers the risk of postpartum depression and the kind of complicated grief often experienced when we found ourselves reverting to old trauma responses during important decision-making instead of asking more questions and responding from a grounded place. Many of my clients went into working with a doula very skeptical and came out convinced that doula support was worth every penny and more.
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